While it’s true that as their children grow up, parents should be more willing to allow them to assume more responsibilities, the truth is it can be extremely hard for parents to disengage and let their children make their own decisions. The inability to do so, especially in critical life moments of a child’s life, is what keeps children from growing and becoming their best selves. One of these critical moments in particular is the college search and admissions process. These moments are often when it’s most important for children to take hold of the wheel and start determining their own future. As a parent, your first instinct may be to swoop in and do all the heavy lifting, but the best thing for you to do is step aside and offer advice when asked. This isn’t to say your input should be null, but rather selective. Ultimately, you should still speak up if you’re concerned about some of the choices your child is making but understand that the choice should be his or her own. This is a lot easier said than done for a number of parents, which is exactly why the resource accompanying this post has been provided. The information within it will ensure that parents are more prepared for these moments and can provide the support necessary to their children.
The Parent-Student Relationship In College Searches for more information on the college search process, be sure to check out the Encourage App
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